Dating when he doesnt call
You're thinking things are going really well so far. Is he sleeping during the day and going out at night to fight crime? Either he's being really forward with you or that "thinking of you" text was only sent to you because he wasn't paying attention. He sends 15 texts in a row when you don't respond right away. Time to send nine more just to make sure you're not missing them. And to be totally fair, physical chemistry is still important. Wait, so you're really going to lay in bed with your ringer on all weekend in case he calls? No man should ever leave you waiting, and if he does, he's clearly not the man for you! You'll be having so much fun, you won't even care if he does decide to finally call you.Repeat after me: this isn't your fault, this isn't your fault, this isn't your fault. His other social media profiles are really private. And then suddenly you don't hear from him for 12 hours. You're really hitting it off, but the dude is basically a ghost. No one who online dates is "off the grid." He's hiding a dark secret (or he just has a girlfriend). Clearly, this guy has some issues, because who wouldn't want to talk to you?You're pretty awesome, so there has got to be something wrong with him.
Aww, everything's so blissful and so perfect..so you thought.
Try your hardest to keep your fingers away from the keyboard when you're all up in your feelings. Seriously, are you really going to bug his friends over a lack of phone calls?
Try not to drag any unnecessary people into the situation.
For now, you're just a girl he doesn't want to talk to, but if you keep calling him repeatedly, you'll be the newest contact on his block list. Remove your hands from the dial screen, and take a deep breath. You've made it this far in life without a criminal record, do you really want to get hit with a stalking and trespassing charge?
If a guy stops calling you, it's his loss, but driving by his house is crossing the line! Do yourself a favor, and never ever show up at his job. Perhaps you met his mom in passing, or maybe she's just one of your many Facebook friends (which is very strange, BTW.) But please don't call his mom to ask about his whereabouts.