Deal with intimidating boss
A colleague at work challenges the comments of workers and the decisions of managers. You are all so intimidated, you probably spend a lot of time talking about what she’s done and what she might so next. Instead of getting on with your work, you waste time. Failing to meet your targets or deadlines is ammunition for her. You are probably tired of this game and want to stop playing. Bullies are really cowards so confrontations of this sort will soon have this woman tiptoeing around the self-assured person. Do this by reimagining the scenario that scared you.
She is nice on the surface but she talks herself up while undermining others and distorting what is said about her. You and your workmates appear to be convinced that she is dangerous. How do you become self-assured so you too can put her in her place? Even if you imagine her chasing you around with an axe, go with it. You will know when all your fears have been put to rest because you’ll have no reaction.
Humanizing your “monster.” Dig beneath the surface.
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