My dad is dating a younger woman
Sadly, this is something that younger guys are really bad at.
They will prattle on about themselves incessantly, until the woman they admire is ready to jump out of the nearest window in a last-ditch effort to escape.
If she’s dating an older man, there’s probably a reason, and the best you can do in this situation is make the most of what you have and who you are.
The following dos and don’ts should give you a better idea how to manage your position in your May-December relationship to your best advantage. One of the main reasons that she’s with you, and not with some stud of her own age, is that younger guys often don’t hit the emotional mark.
[email protected] I am so sorry you lost your dad to cancer. My dad had bladder cancer at age 88 and drove himself to chemo and radiation and did not lose his hair, but the treatment did result in kidney disease, but Dad has doctors that are amazing and they keep him going.
It’s every older guy’s dream to have a young, beautiful little thing hanging off his arm on the way to dinner or another social function.
You have opinions that are considered and respected, and you have the confidence to deliver them; the younger man is limited to names and performances of his favorite sportsmen, while you can hold court upon any subject with ease.
This is a strength that the younger woman admires and aspires to. No better place to start than with your voice and mind. You don’t have to be a daredevil stunt driver or extreme sports junkie to pick up some interesting experiences along the way. It may be people you’ve met, places you’ve been on holiday, or anything else that stands out from the normal array of day-to-day activities.
We can be mean, nasty, and take stuff from stores claiming we have dementia and didn't remember we have to pay for stuff.Helen and Dad hold hands, and I have seen him give her a kiss too!Hope Helen and Dad can be "friends" for a very long [email protected] Even in Asia people are more accepting that older people can find new love if they lost their life partner.Sharing these things with the younger woman you have your eye upon will fascinate her, scintillate her, and keep her coming back for more–especially when her male peers struggle to find anything to talk about beyond frat parties and MTV.
[Read: 10 spontaneous romantic moves men should try on a date] #4 DO take an interest in her.
A conversation should be a two-way street with attempts to solicit information from the other person, and it should involve as much listening as talking–if not more. His levels of empathy and patience have strengthened over time and will prove an invaluable tool in any attempt to woo the object of one’s desires.