Red flags for guy you are dating
22-Feb-2020 07:24
When it comes to finding a long-term partner, a guy wants a mind mate, someone who will challenge him.So if you don’t appear to be intelligent or purposely restrain your intelligence, a guy still might hook up with you, but it’s doubtful he will see a future with you.It’s attractive to be a deep person who is unapologetically themselves and is not afraid to show people exactly who they are.Behaviour that will lead a guy to believe that you aren’t a super authentic and real person are things like too many selfies on Instagram, being obsessed with superficial things, and delusional about what’s important in life, and not able to talk about deep, intellectual things that actually make for real and interesting conversation.It’s enough to drive the average guy mad until it becomes a serious source of friction in the relationship.And finally, it doesn’t bode well when a girl is not able to maintain female friendships.This makes it tough to do things like go on double dates with other couples, or for him to be able to have his guy’s nights out, because why should he get his guy’s nights out when she doesn’t have any girl’s nights out?This set-up is also going to be a disaster for a guy that is jealous in any way.
A guy wants his girl to be able to hang out and get along with his guy friends, but it’s also important that she has her girl friends and spends time with them, mainly so that he doesn’t feel bad about going off and spending time with his guy friends. If you have a dry personality, no sense of humour, and aren’t interesting, like a plain piece of dry wall, then you can definitely consider that a red flag.Guys don’t like girls that aren’t themselves, are afraid to be themselves, or have very thin personalities and only talk about what happened on the latest episode of the Kardashians or Desperate Housewives.