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Watching shows like Eat Your Kimchi might help a tiny bit but in my experience nothing helped better than reading and having good Korean friends.The book that prepared me the best for my move to South Korea was without a doubt Korea: Impossible Country by Daniel Tudor.There are countless coffee shops, restaurants, and bars in South Korea.My advice would be to keep your dating in that sort of setting until you really know what you want.Western women like sex and they have sex a lot, this is what Asian guys think.It is the most undeniable, indisputable fact about being a Westerner trying to make relationships work in Asia.
It’s not that I had come to Korea obsessed with K-Pop and K-Dramas and wanting my own recreation of that sort of dynamic. It had happened to so many of us and it happened so regularly that we just figured it was a normal thing. I told this to my Korean girlfriend and she gave me a sort of sad, I feel-sorry-for you look. “If someone is doing that to you, it’s unacceptable behavior.” Bam!Hard work has always been sexy to me and these guys were the opposite of the privileged white male (or female, for that matter). My mother was divorced when I was four years old and some of the only father figures I had in my life were Asian men.We traveled to the Philippines when I was 8 years old and I most certainly left pieces of my heart there. So that’s just a few of the my reasons, it’s easier to see the picture once you have some of the puzzle pieces.It might be something small but right there my world shattered and I realized I had been going about the dating thing all wrong because I had been trading advice with other Westerners instead of Koreans. Get a Korean best friend and when you start finding you’re interested in a guy or he’s interested in you, get him to have coffee with you and your girlfriend, she’ll use her 눈치 to help you figure out who’s sincere and who’s straight up playing games with your heart.
2.) Remember That Western Women Have a Reputation in Asia I would estimate that at least half of my first dates in Korea ended up with the guy trying to have sex with me.) who knows, and they were commenting on the fact that my Korean was “so good” (not true) and that so few Westerners bother to study it.