Signs you dating commitment phobe
You’re might just be trying to get a date with them for Friday night, but they hem and haw like you’ve just proposed marriage.
They are pros at dodging when you try to get normal answers about what you’re going to do, whether or not you can go to the movies or anything else. “Spontaneity” can be genuine and fun or it can be a technique to avoid being tied down and keep the other person off balance.
I know this mess of a behavior pattern well since it used to be me.
I’m not proud to admit it, but used to joke that even though I lived somewhere nice, I would never let anyone see it because they might get too comfortable.
It seems like they’re trying not to ruin your relationship and be careful in any decision they make, but in fact, they only think about leaving the things as casual as they are now.
They don’t see the necessity to take the next step in your relationship and to think about your future together.
That’s why it’s that much more important to catch the signs that your new love is allergic to any form of shared future before you fall hard for them and it’s too late.
In bizarre dating and relationship behavior-land, there is the commitment-phobe.The thing is, however, that it’s not that easy to recognize someone who has a fear of commitment.